On Friday, Chechen Prime Minister Ramzan Kadyrov, a Muslim, announced that men in Chechnya should be allowed to take up to four wives, as allowed by Islam, because so many men are killed in Chechen wars. He is supported by Russian parliamentary speaker Vladimir Zhirinovsky, who alleges that there are 10 million more women in Russia than men, and would like to see polygamy applied across Russia.(1)
Islam's founder, the Prophet Mohammad, practiced polygamy, marrying between 9 and 12 times (his youngest bride was 6 when they married, but he waited until she was all of 10 and he was 54 to consummate the marriage). Oddly enough, the Koranic verses allowing polygamy were not even revealed to Mohammad until he had taken his third living wife (his first, Kadija, had already died). And, while normal Muslim men are restricted to just four wives, Mohammad was somehow exempted from this limit. The Koranic verse reads:
Marry of the women who seem good to you, two or three or four. And if ye fear that ye cannot do justice to so many, then marry only one.(2)
Even the Prophet Mohammad could not treat all of his wives equally, eventually favoring his youngest wife, A'isha. After great resentment built up among his other wives because he devoted so much of his time with A'isha, Mohammad told them that
God had given them a choice: either they could accept an ordinary life and be honorably divorced, or, if they "desired Allah and his Messenger and the abode hereafter, then Allah [would] prepare [them] a great reward. If they chose the latter, however, Allah required that they "stay at home and not display themselves as in the days of ignorance."(2)
Polygamy presents many problems in modern society. It is blatantlyy sexist; in almost all polygamous societies, only men are allowed to have multiple spouses. Phyllis Chesler, writing in her book
The Death of Feminism of her own experiences living in Afghanistan as a bride to a Afghan man, describes the recurring problems of polygamy. Among them: predictably, a husband favoring one wife over his others, not being able to devote equal time or resources to all of his wives and their children, resentment building between children of disfavored wives and favored wives, and a husband abandoning a wife altogether in favor of another, leaving the abandoned wife little support, and in societies where women cannot leave the house without a chaperone or divorce without fear of retaliation, a severely limited social and non-existent sex/love life. (3)
Clearly, despite Prime Minister Kadyrov's presumably benign reasons for wanting to introduce polygamy in Chechnya (i.e., protection/support for widowed or otherwise unmarried women), the actual implementation of polygamy brings with it innumerable disadvantages to women. It is also important to consider the Prime Minister's history. Not surprisingly, Prime Minister Kadyrov has a reputation of human rights violations:
As the head of the Chechen Presidential Security Service, Kadyrov has often been accused of being brutal, ruthless and antidemocratic; according to newspapers, he was implicated in several instances of torture and murder. . . German human rights group the Society for Threatened Peoples (GfbV) has alleged that up to 70% of all murders, rapes, torture and kidnappings in Chechnya have been committed by Ramsan's 3,000-strong private army, the internal security force he heads known as the Kadyrovtsy.(4)
Sources:
(1)
BBC News Online, "Polygamy Proposal for Chechen Men"
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/4610396.stm(2) Goodwin, Jan.
Price of Honor: Muslim Women Life the Veil of Silence on the Islamic World. Plume: New York, 2003, pp. 36-39.
(3) Chesler, Phyllis.
The Death of Feminism. Palgrave Macmillan: New York, 2005, pp. 79-100.
(4)
Wikipedia: The Free Encyclopedia, "Ramzan Kadyrov"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramzan_Kadyrov